You're fucking important

Idk how many of you need this advice, but this is something I have to remind myself all the time.

Personally I prioritise others over myself way too much. I'll go to great lengths to make people happy, even if that means sacrificing time or my own well-being. It's why I enjoy basketball refereeing. Despite all the abuse and shit I have to deal with, it makes for a better experience for the players than if I wasn't there. It's why I try to see my friends often, because I love to make them feel better even if that means giving up personal time.

However obviously there's a problem here. Other people's happiness is coming at the cost of mine.

It might be a self-esteem issue, honestly it probably is considering how much I look down on myself. I don't want that to get in the way of me. That's why I have to remind myself that I do actually matter. I need to look after myself. If I'm happier, then overall everyone else would be.

You're fucking important. Please take care of yourself.
Avatar
Pink Gingerbread
Raffle #
604,403
Entries:
416 / 10,000
Time Left:
Type:
One Winner
Tips on this raffle:
5
Raffler's total tips:
958
This raffle ended on 1558051442.
It was started on 1557965042

Comments

Avatar
My self esteem is through the floor
Avatar
I'm just a fucking bird
Avatar
Thank you for the psa.
Avatar
Ofcourse I am.
Avatar
i do this sometimes as well, unfortunately. also thank you
Avatar
What if my problem is the opposite? -w-
Avatar
Okay, well, thanks! I also have a bad habit of putting other people before myself.
Avatar
needed to hear this today ^^
Avatar
You should be happy too. It's kind of you to help others, but sometimes you need to just focus on yourself.
Avatar
I know I am, thanks. :B1:
Avatar
Krimena No it's my first language, but my writing skills are nowhere near as good as my scientific and mathematical ones
Avatar
Carbon Helium Just asking, but is english not your main language?
Avatar
I will, and I hope you will too
Avatar
Krimena I'm not the best at English but glad I can help
Avatar
Your words are spoken like an angels. Thanks for me and others feel a little better. Godspeed.
Avatar
I know the feeling. But you are important for this community too, so don't forget us. :optikaheart:
Avatar
Thanks dude :D You're important to us too

Items

Winners

Avatar
M************r
Avatar
M************r
Some winners in this raffle have chosen to hide their names and/or avatars.
You can choose to show your name and avatar by going to your settings page.